Thanks for the insightful blog. What constitutes too many hurdles? If he in fact likes you, this speaks volumes about his character. You never mention personality. He agreed. It's also very easy to misinterpret texts. This might sound a little weird, but the second reason why he doesnt initiate contact but always responds is that he wants to see how far things will go between you two. When my laptop went down, I accessed fb on my cell and sent him my phone number. But it does mean that hes not making a move and he wants to see what happens between the two of you first. Tears are good. I am curious to know what your opinion is on this, Andrew. Really? This is something we all have to go through at some point or another! "In my experience these two things aren't necessarily (or even frequently) distinct. I am not saying all of this so that women can now justify bombarding a non interested man with value-taking texts. Especially in connecting with the high value men (who always get snapped up super fast)? been there, done that, so boring. Would be interested in your thoughts on it. I have never been very forward mind you, but if I liked a guy I make effort to invite him stuff and sometimes text him first. I said true attunement looks more like 50/50. I remember reading an article in a newspaper, one of those where you ask a psychologist about your situation. I don't think most men do this for women. There is a recent post on another blog dealing with this topic:http://www.marriedmansexlife.com/2012/01/girl-game-if-hes-into-you-hell-ask-you.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+MarriedManSexLife+%28Married+Man+Sex+Life%29. There's flirty chitchat at social gatherings, tango classes at night, random encounters on the street you know the drill. I don't really approach girls (in bars or elsewhere) that I couldn't envision myself dating. Thanks for the advice! Dont give me the argument about men being programmed to love the chase, because if thats where the true value of women really lies, then no man would emotionally commit long-term! They are both slightly younger by a few yearsAnyways his friend 'R' sat next to me and kept talking me up in the limo but me and 'C' couldn't stop staring at each other. Girlfriends will tell you that you are the hottest thing ever. Of course, its also extremely important to give yourself the permission to learn and have your own journey. Desire maybe, but not the emotions required to inspire him to commit. It is any action that is the first step away from a platonic relationship and towards a romantic and/or sexual relationship. !How hard is it just to text 'hey, how was your weekend? 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Shielded me from everythingasked for my number and wanted to take me to dinner. In it, hell reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. Is she a beast or an animal? He behaved very gentlemanly and didn't even make a proper move.Which makes me confused. As a boyfriend, he will keep you wondering if he is going to take you out. But don't expect him to ask you out on a real date! :-) Or do guys think a woman should be as approachable as possible? He's away on holiday, but still.. "Not necessarily. I'm afraid the guy I'm dating now is thinking the same thing. I also agree that women can't be expected to approach indiscriminately. He emailed me 3 days later and that started a conversation that went on for a few days. He must want the woman badly enough to procreate with her, and be invested enough to help take care of the babies into adulthood. When a guy notices that hes catching feelings for you but he has commitment issues, they will do things like suddenly stopping to initiate contact. We've hung out once and he talked to me the other day on facebook chat but hasn't asked me out again. The ego is scary and my self-esteem is way more busted than it was 2 days ago before I read all of this. I've had so many arguments with male and female friends over this. by the way whenever we met we are acting friendly each other but feel he lkes me and he feels lke hm wthout words.on our last 3 rd date we met and his cousin also joined us whom I ve never met before. then he asked me if want to go to skiing w him this time. If they don't though, then yes, you would need to initiate because he probably assumes that you aren't interested. We talked about so much, we have quite a bit in common and the whole time I wanted to kiss him. Don't let him "have his cake and eat it too.". Both sexes can gauge their league in the long term by looking at the people they've dated for any reasonable amount of time, i.e. What to do when your ex responds to texts but never initiates 1. Although I had just had a blow-dry first time he looked at me and my hair was looking great, so perhaps I'll repeat that). I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If he really makes zero effort to reach out to you, then maybe you can do yourself a favor and just stop texting him. Well, sometimes, men call very often. You seem like a well of wisdom and, for a girl like me with little experience, it's nice to read a man's perspective. I moved on. All things you can control. High value banter will allow you to initiate real connection online, cut through the online graveyard of online conversations, and connect with the souls of high value men immediately. If you're the anxious type, you may overcompensate for his behavior and keep reaching out to him. But the problem is, he doesnt really text me or initiate contact first. I have spotted a cute guy at school (I'm in uni), we have a couple of classes together, he sits with his friends on the opposite side of the room, I've never spoken to him. Because no matter how masculine a guy is, hes going to instinctively be looking for responsiveness and attunement in his woman. You see, there is a chance that he noticed that he likes you a LOT, and so hes suddenly getting scared. No, and I would say no even if you haven't been dating a while. Andrew, can you please write a post on women initiating interest on an online dating/matrimonial site? (Also also, just wondering about the diagram - are the light blue and lavender supposed to be reversed? "From the man's perspective, no, they are not random at all. There are just way too many variables to try and read into a lack of approach.Does approaching mean you have to take the lead every step of the way, initiating a date, initiating physical contact, initiating sex? CLICK HERE to LEARN the one specific emotional trigger. Is it okay (now that's already asked you out once) to invite him on a casual date? What does this all mean? But he has not initiated a second dateI know he's shy and nervous around me. Most girls I know will wait for a guy to initiate on the first 3 dates or so, but text him first after that, if they've had a lot of phone/text conversations.Personally I follow the advice (I never text or call), even though most people in my social circle don't prescribe to these rules. I'm an attractive girl in her late 20's who was a +1 at a mutual friends wedding. If a man cancels a date, changes plans last minute or anything in that area, what would you say is the appropriate reaction? Cheers.There is little free thinking at all.No BS and Millionaire Circle written well, thanks for the info When I click on your RS feed it puts up a whole lot of unformulated HTML, is the problem on my end.Thank you so much, great post! Now: when that happens, and his confidence goes down, that might block him from initiating contact with you. I am still going strong with my best friend who ive known since kindergarden and have been super close with for almost 9 years but still everyone says it cant work and blah blah blah. You see, some guys are afraid of approaching girls, which is why they dont initiate contact and let you do the work. Women expect men to do everything unless they see that other women are interested in you. I know, this one is pretty sweet, isnt it? Women are just objects to you, always pathetic, only valid if they are beautiful. went to my car and felt that couldnt drive was drunk a lttle bit and my home is 40 mnutes drve way.. texted him saying dont feel good enough to drive so m leaving my car and taking a cab.he texted me back by saying come to my house ypu can stay here and take yr car in the morning then went to his house he is divorced with 2 kidsand his kids were sleeping. we listened music a lttle bit and then we made love and had great sex. stayed there and woke up before the kids and left the house36 hours later he sent me a text sayng my name with a smiley face and asked how am I doing. Andrew, I have been following your posts from past few months and they are very practical and positive. He would've done that by now if he was serious. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. In addition, Showalter expects "more five-man" infields (which is legal), especially in late-game situations but that runs the risk of having just two outfielders. I wont text h im again until I hear from him. The solution to never chasing a man is not to be passive! But what kinds of people really need and thrive upon advice thats designed to get them to swing the pendulum away from truly engaging in playfulness with men, and instead towards never initiating? I really want to move on from this. Yeah, I would say it's your turn. "Yes, in fact I would say it is probable. Will be very helpful. He still contacts me often, and sometimes 'just to chat'.He's asked to see me a few times now - I've held it off as I'm traveling and have exams. I was dating a man who jumped through hurdles and was a very good boyfriend..then just before moving in he had a panic attack and dumped me by email. Are you assuming that those initial contacts are random, chance events? I don't really approach girls (in bars or elsewhere) that I couldn't envision myself dating. Just use some common sense, and let the guy know what you want and set your boundaries. Furthermore I dated also hundreds of girls.I did not have time to read the comments, but i don't agree fully with your text.I agree with the sentence that you should watch after a guys actions instead of words. The problem is: I'm afraid I'm needing his presence but I'm willing to do whatever is best for me and my health :DMaybe I'm not explaining wel but anyway excuse my english, I'm french speaking. I am European and thought there might be a difference, but my friend who's pushing me into texting first is in fact American. Also I don't have his cell number as his friend could be with him but he has mine. Should I just forget it and leave it there? Took a taxi to the hotel, and was in the lobby screaming my name.Essentially, find someone that is clearer in his intentions. and i impressed with your writing and your blogGclub 50% Gclub >>> Gclub online, This is really an amazing article. Is "liking" a guy's facebook photo initiating contact? Do you think any truly feminine woman would never initiate? (Assuming - incorrectly - that the more emotional woman is easier to manipulate.) I did right thing, didn't I ? If you need to stay passive for safety, then dont be surprised if you always seem to be second in line for the high value men. So it was very confusing. According to popular culture, they're all man-children and parasites! And Im not saying you should chase a man, because you shouldnt. So hes either very busy or there is another woman hes wanted more than me?? Even though he asked for my number initially, I have a feeling that if I hadn't randomly texted him one day, it probably would've taken longer for us to actually hang out. The one thing I would say about this if you are pretty sure that he is scared of rejection, dont force the issue! But could maybe use more advice on being fun and approachable! Honestly, you lost me at "there is more men than women that want casual sex? If you are online dating, the best method to initiate with a man without looking desperate is to use high value banter. Feminine energy has no desire to figure out how to initiate contact because there's no WANT to initiate contact. If you liked this article, CLICK HERE to check out my full article archives! He doesnt want to be a burden and he doesnt want to scare you away by being too forward! But if youre not sure about this at all and you think he might be too insecure to make a move dont push it. My coworkers have continued to tease us like the professional adults that they are (perhaps he said something to someone that made them believe there's something going on? We have texted back and forth all day a couple times but then I won't hear from him for a day or so. So by sending subtle signals and initiating, you get to give him the fuel he needs in order to feel more comfortable approaching you (if he wants to). P.S. (I also blocked my dating profile from new people as had a lot of upsets on it and I told him this). And you have to remember: no matter how shy or insecure he is, he might just be scared of rejection. So many women have been using the text examples he gives and noticing that they are able to connect with the high value men better and faster, and repel the low value men faster. Thats totally OK. Its just something to work through once youre aware of it. If she doesn't, then it didn't mean anything to her and I move on. Unless youve already tried initiating and you got clear signals back from him indicating hes not interested. Then, after 6 wks or so of this, we went to "lunch" (neither of us called it a "date") and after the date, I made a giant faux-pas; I asked if he could ever see me as more than a friend and that I was only asking so I'd know to "get off this train" if I needed to. So yesterday I texted: Hope your being a good boy! While this article will shed light on the main reasons he isnt initiating contact, it can be helpful to speak to a relationship coach about your situation. If you do want to date him but he isn't interested, you will know, and then, it's about being ok with rejection.Just don't confuse sleeping with a guy with him being interested. Be human, emotionally engage or send subtle signals and connect with men, despite feeling vulnerable. 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They cant stand the thought of taking any risk, because they dont want to be exposed to the pain of rejection.But Im sure thats not really you deep down inside, is it?Heres an article on how to make him chase you. Unless my shyness can be interpreted as arrogance, I suppose that's a risk? Most of the time actually.Maybe I'll edit the post to include a senstence or two explaining the shades of grey. But I was sad because we kinda growing great friendship. One week later his friend (who we hung out) approached me on the dating site to ask me out for drinks. How long do you think women can believe in the Tooth Fairy while people like you tell us to give but not expect anything? Youre not gonna like this, but the first reason could be that hes just playing games with you. I don't deliberately surround myself only with other women but I'm following Andrew's advice not to initiate contact and the men in the class never talk to me or the other women (so it's not that I'm not approachable). And body type doesn't play such a major role as you get older. Confidence is the most important male attribute for attracting women. What does it say, when a guy tells his ex that he likes the fact that the girl still wants to be with him. I can never treat guys that I am attracted to like friends because I become too shy (I should probably work on that), but whenever I've treated a guy that I'm not attracted to (even if he's as hot/hotter than me) the same way I would treat a gay friend, he ends up asking me out. I usually give people three strikes. It's the whole Mars vs. Venus thing. So I think the short answer to your question is that no, most men don't put up hurdles that a woman needs to jump over to get a guy of a higher caliber. Waiting makes him miss you and reach out on his own. Hi Andrew, I'd love some feedback.I'm 23 and there is a gal who is 28 I'm starting to like. No. Then the test result was he was dissapointed, angry and left you so fast and never wanted to talk to you again, dissapeared. He may need your help? We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. This is the equivalent of the male question "how do I know if she rejected my approach because I am not attractive enough or because I didn't approach her confidently/casually/quickly/wittily/naturally/etc. His friends and peers constantly made digs at him such as 'what does she see in you?' This is a fact when it comes to understanding men. It is not like getting a grade in school or something. There is this guy I like that is often writing me on facebook, we do a lot of small talk but he doesn't ask me out. Share with us your thoughts, and once there are some answers, Ill share my answer too. And this is often a reason that women say that men should be the ones to chase. What about the classic way women used to initiate back in the day, by dropping the hanky? I can add that he's European (we're both, from a liberal background) where it's "normal" for people to hook up and then become a couple. When I was 24 I sang at a karaoke night, b4 I was thru a girl had pulled me offstage and showed me one of the funnest nights of my life, even paying for all my drinks. He might be very confident in other parts of his life, but when it comes to women and relationships he might not feel as confident as hed like. "Most guys I know make cold approaches all the time. I am an Indian female and I am on the Indian matrimonial websites. Athletic fit can mean different things too. Instead, initiate with your subtle signalling or high value banter. Oh this is exactly my situation too! Oh, one more thing: about two weeks ago, he said he wanted to get together soon for "a chat", but he didn't schedule anything at that point, nor does it seem like he will, due to my change of schedule.HELP? That's completely sending the wrong message. If it is a first date it might mean that he is not especially excited about going out with you but you can't really expect him to be very invested in a relationship with you at that point - especially if he has options, you may be another pretty girl. I've been hurt so many timesHe's the perfect man for me so far and I'm scaredShould I just have let him initiate the second meeting? "Also, are we talking about a first approach (as in the bar example) or those first floundering steps towards a potential relationship (as in most other text)? He did not say yet he likes me. Heres an article I wrote for you on How To Make Him Chase You And Value YOU. Being excited to talk to him, but never reaching out to him will send out mixed singles and make him confused. Heres a well researched article (with scientific references) on why women should initiate in online dating. This could also be because of past relationships where he wasnt treated very well in the beginning or where the girl didnt really return his feelings! They gaze at a man a fraction of a second longer than they should. And when I did hit him up that one time, I didn't have any intentions of setting up this date with him, but more just to see if he was available to hang out while I killed some time (He just happened to be one of the few people I texted that time). My motto is.."If I want something and am willing to accept the consequences of not getting it, then hey, at least I tried". In that case, it really comes down to what you want to do with that info. Another reason could be that hes just not interested in you. i.e. Any woman who has had a man be in love with her knows this. So dont worry! What do you want, a gold digger? Ignore same with cold ? We are living, breathing and responsible creatures, I hope. He'll start getting the idea that you may like him without you actually asking him out. You apparently shouldnt chase a man. If a guy isnt sure about his feelings for someone else, or if his life is completely chaotic right now and he has a lot of stress going on in his life at the moment (e.g., because of school or work), then it might be hard for him to initiate contact with someone else too. I attempted to illustrate the principle using very black and white examples because they are the best tools for doing so - and often in my experience it has occurred that way. CLICK HERE to find out with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz! And if he is encourage him to try more with you. Lets use our thinking caps here. Like "she took two hours to reply, maybe I shouldn't reply right away". Anyway, I really don't want to go through all the stress and frustration in trying to figure him out anymore when he most likely doesn't even think about it at all! Okay, another reason why he is never initiating contact is that he simply isn't used to it! QUIZ TIME: Is your man serious about committing to you? I have decided that I won't initate contact unless I am actually dating someone. Guys feel the same, but we have to man up and do it anyway because that's what we're supposed to do as guys. You reply friendly to every text, but you stop at some point because the conversation can't go for days (given that his last text didn't ask a question).Am I suppose to send the next one anyway or wait for him to text me again? So its rare that a guy will find a girl attractive both personality and looks wise?Mannnn, your making us men look bad. Two months ago, he messaged me on FB and asked for my number and said we should hang out. Then maybe you will come back to his mind when hes ready for a relationship. I don't think men in general seek out friendships with women. How about you focus on your happiness post a divorce. Intimacy is like a dance. I suppose that is a preference for some, but do you think it is the case for most guys?I've also witnessed some guys say that they like sassy, forward women to approach them. He will get the idea. Should women refuse last minute plans? (to flirt to see his reaction I guess). But I think many women think differently about shy men. If youre extremely pretty or intelligent for example, this could scare him a little and make him hesitant of contacting you first. If he doesnt know how to approach you, then it could be that he has a social phobia and is afraid of rejection. They are calling it a game changer!). Men have certain innate drivers. I am not talking about factual communalities, but more about the deeper motivational emotional stuff.Anyways, the truth is: he is good with women in general, he probably goes allong with other women as well and he find it difficult to make a decision.All you have to do is to make him a little bit more invested than the 'good morning beautiful..have a great day!' But dont worry, Ill shed some light on the situation and tell you the reasons why this is happening! The reason for this is simple: sometimes we can get so caught up in the moment that we forget what we actually want and how far we may want things to go with certain people. I just want to stay in the woman lane and be a woman and a man be a man. So even from the female perspective these aren't random events. we chat for hours about most topics and even if days go by, he'd re-initiate contact by saying he really miSsed our chats. After you both had short good times in non sex things and kind of growing great friendship.So was that the truth that he only wanted you for sex ? I've read about 30 of these blogs in the last 2 days and what I've gathered is there is absolutely nothing a woman can do right to please a man and if she does, he looks down on her anyways. But that's my take. No one falls in love by being passive. most of the women today want to date so many men at one time, and just can't commit themselves to only one. I find him good-looking, he is no Brad Pitt, but I'm sure other girls could be into him. I wanted to give my marriage a second chance but it eventually didn't work out. He still gives me mixed signals tho. And women (atleast in my experience) can make contact by sending out texts, asking how we're doing, initiating a conversaition. He asked me out on a proper dinner date and we had it tonight. What makes him special compared to other guys? If you were completely passive, even in the beginning, a high value man would never dance with you. I don't know if I'm saying this because I am younger, but maybe don't propose to have coffee - that sounds too much like a date and may freak him out if he's genuinely shy and not that comfortable around you. So instead of putting himself out there and risking being rejected, he just sits back and waits for you to come to him. He's just not sure about you yet. A man would give up and begin to resent you. Honestly though, I'm getting really put off to say the least because I know he's interested by the frequency and genuine interest he takes in getting to know me, but I've gotta wait till when? 3. I made out and cuddled with one Danish boy while he was touring the US, and it was me the one who had to make the first moves - he was too shy to make any even though he clearly liked me and I was obviously flirting with him. 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